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A&B #219
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âď¸ Life Lessons:
Instead of a book summary this week, I wanted to share 3 life lessons from this year.
Hopefully at least one is valuable but if not weâll be back to our regular book newsletter next week.
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1) The Harder The Task, The Greater The Treasure
If youâre trying to achieve something hard, take pleasure in the fact that the more difficult the task, the fewer people will do it, and the greater youâll be rewarded for it.
For example, last month I signed up for a 4:34am workout with bestselling author and Navy SEAL Jocko Willink.
The event was free so technically anyone could attend.
That morning I woke up at 3am and drove over an hour to the event. It took place outside at a Walmart parking lot and the temperature was around 38°F (AKA cold).
Jocko said that 800+ people had signed up for the event but only around 150 showed up. That means roughly 82% of those who planned to attend, didnât.
âWhile theyâre sleeping in their warm comfy bed, weâre out here getting stronger and better,â yelled Jocko into the crowd.
We did push-ups, burpees, jumping jacks, and sit-ups on the cold, rough asphalt for an hour. It sucked in the moment, but I felt great after it was done.
After the workout, people lined up to meet with Jocko (hereâs a cool shoutout he did for me).
So whenever youâre doing something difficult, take pleasure in the fact that most people arenât doing the work and that youâre getting ahead.
For example, The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that the average person working 45 hours per week earns 44% more pay.
In other words, if you work 13% more hours youâll earn 44% more money.
Iâd guess that working longer hours leads to more overtime, raises, and promotions.
So whether itâs staying longer at work, in the library, or at the gym, your hard work will pay off.
And even if it doesnât pay off immediately, you can look back and be proud of yourself for accomplishing something difficult.
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2) Be Happy If Something Is Your Fault (That Means You Can Fix It)
Earlier this year I tore my ACL playing basketball.
It required surgery and the road to recovery was incredibly painful.
About a month ago, it felt like my knee wasnât getting better and I thought something was wrong.
I thought that either my physical therapist wasnât doing a good job or my surgeon messed up my surgery.
Instead of taking responsibility, I immediately blamed them and wondered if I should consider suing them for malpractice.
Looking back, that was a ridiculous thought since my physical therapist has 10+ years of experience and my surgeon has 20+ years of experience, and both have worked on hundreds if not thousands of ACL cases.
I asked them both for their thoughts and they asked me how many times I was working out my leg.
âOnce a week,â I told them, âthatâs what my insurance approved me for.â
They both said the same thingâinsurance companies try to save as much money as possible so even though they only approved one physical therapy appointment a week, I should be doing the exercise at least 1-2 times at home or at the gym myself.
This was both good news and bad news.
I was glad that there was a clear path to strengthening my leg, but my ego was upset that I was the problem.
It wasnât anyoneâs fault except my own.
Ever since I learned this new information, I've been consistently doing the exercises at home or at the gym 2-3x a week and have started to make more progress with my recovery.
So if you find yourself in a situation where you arenât happy with the way things are going, take a minute to do a hard reflection and see if itâs possible that youâre at fault.
And if you are, be happy that you have an opportunity to make things better.
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3) Always Make The Effort To Meet In Person
Not all forms of communication are created equally:
Itâs 10x better to call someone than to text them.
Itâs 10x better to Facetime someone than to call them.
And 10x itâs better to meet in person than to Facetime someone.
If thereâs someone you really want to connect with or learn from, itâs worth making the effort to meet them in person.
Thereâs a bestselling author that I admire and had a Zoom call with earlier this year. The call went well and we got to know a bit about each other.
Then a couple of months later, the author messaged me saying he was in NYC and asked if I wanted to get food with him in an hour.
I originally had plans to join my friends for dinner but I messaged them that this was a great opportunity to meet the author in person and they encouraged me to go meet the author. So, I hopped on the subway and made my way to midtown to meet with him.
We spent 2 hours chatting and at the end of the night, it felt like we became friendsâwhich is extremely hard to do if you only talk to someone through video.
He also shared insider knowledge about the publishing industry, new marketing tactics, and his next book that he hadnât yet publicly announced.
I can almost guarantee that he wouldnât have shared as much information if we talked through text or on a call. Successful people tend to be extremely careful with what they say online, in emails, or on calls because they never know if someone is recording what theyâre saying.
So, if you want to form a stronger connection with someone or get the real inside scoop on whatâs going on in a personâs industry, make the trek to meet them in person.
It will almost always pay off.
â Actionable Advice:
1) Do more hard things. You donât want to look back on your life and see that you never got out of your comfort zone or didnât live up to your potential.
2) Be happy if something is your fault because that means you can fix it.
3) If thereâs someone you want to form a personal or professional relationship with, make the effort to meet with them in person.
đ Weekly Gem:
A Bitcoin millionaire wrote a book about treasure and then left clues inside it to 5 hidden treasure chests worth over $2,000,000.
The treasure chests include rare PokĂŠmon cards, shipwrecked gold, unique gems, and even a Bitcoin.
To find the loot, youâll need to read the book and solve the puzzles and maps inside it.
The book is appropriately titled âThereâs Treasure Insideââgood luck everyone!
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